“Tear apart” is often used to refer to destroying something or upsetting someone.
Definitions
1. “Tear (something) apart” – To destroy something.
- “You can see videos online of buildings being torn apart by hurricanes.”
- “The blast tore the building apart and damaged properties nearby.”
* Similar phrasal verbs: “Tear apart” or “Rip through.”
“Rip through (something)” has a similar meaning but this sounds better in the active voice.
- “You can see videos online of hurricanes ripping through buildings.”
2. “Tear (something) apart” – To pull something violently into pieces.
- “Dingoes have been observed to be tidy eaters but can tear apart their prey in certain situations.”
- “How do I stop the cat from tearing the furniture apart?”
* Phrasal verbs with the same meaning: “Tear apart” or “Tear up.”
“Tear (something) up” also has the same meaning.
- “It wasn’t long before the kids tore up the new couch.”
3. “Tear (something) apart” – To search a place thoroughly but in a careless way that causes damage.
- “They tore the house apart, looking for the hidden safe.”
- “You don’t always have to tear the room apart just to look for your keys, you know?”
4. “Tear (somebody) apart” – To make someone very sad, upset or worried.
- “You’re tearing me apart, Lisa!”
- “Their breakup really tore him apart.”
* Phrasal verbs with the same meaning: “Tear apart” or “Tear up.”
“Tear (somebody) up” also has the same meaning.
- “He’s still really torn up about their breakup.”
5. “Tear (somebody/something) apart” – To criticise someone or something in a harsh or angry way.
- “The article really didn’t hold back on tearing the company apart.“
- “I heard he tore the server apart because she served him the wrong drink.”
* Phrasal verbs with the same meaning: “Tear apart” or “Rip apart.”
“Rip (somebody/something) apart” also has the same meaning here.
- “The reviews are really ripping the new movie apart. Do you still want to watch it?”
6. “Tear (something) apart” – To make a group of people – a country, organisation, or family – argue or fight each other.
- “When will you realise that your gambling is tearing the family apart?“
- “Our family migrated overseas just before the civil war tore the country apart.”
7. “Tear (something) apart” – To severely defeat an opponent.
This use was only found in the Merriam Webster dictionary. This is similar to destroying something but in a figurative sense.
This also seems to be more commonly used in gaming or competitive sports.
- “He had to start from scratch when his character got torn apart in last week’s competition.”
- “The visiting team tore our team apart yesterday. It wasn’t good.”
Original post: 5 June 2021
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